What Should You Not Forgive In Your Relationship?

 

While we all know forgiveness is your relationship is an  important facet of keeping it longterm, there are just somethings you should not forgive in a relationship.

These are specific things that sums out relationship and therefore should not be taken for granted.

These are 7 Times Forgiveness In Your Relationship Should Not Be Practiced

Rudeness To Your Family

If your partner is disrespect to your family, then they just have not understood how valuable you are. Your family is a major part of your life and they should be able to understand and accept your family if they are thinking of building some thing longterm with you. If he doesn’t know this it learn this first, then you will be unable to have a healthy relationship with him.

Sharing Your Nudes

A man who genuinely loves and respect you would never share your nude photos to people. If he is sharing private pictures you sent to him based on trust to others, then he obviously does not regard you.

It is an absolute privilege for him to get access to your nudes and for him to even think of sharing it to another person is a huge red flag and should not be forgiven.

Always wants you doing things you’re uncomfortable doing

Boundaries are created for a reason. Your partner should be able to respect your set boundaries without mounting pressure on you.

If your partner is crossing lines that shouldn’t be crossed and making you feel uncomfortable at the end of the day, then you should run far away from him.

Does Not Regard your work or hobbies

If your partner makes insulting or derogatory comments about where you work or what you do for a living, then you should reconsider the relationship you use with them:

Your partner will always see you as a lesser person and definitely will not respect your life choices in the long run.

Blaming their misfortunes on you

Please run far away from your partner if they do this.

If your partner always makes you feel guilty whenever bad things happen to him, walk away from that relationship.

Your partner is a grown ass human being and should not be blaming their misfortunes on you.

It shows a lack of accountability and emotional maturity if your partner keeps looking for people to blame to their action.

Physically abuses you

This is a non negotiable fact. If your partner raises their hands on you, time and time again without any iota of remorse, run!

A partner who hits you, will only keep doing that except they get help. It’s not on you to help them get help. Save yourself first before the physical abuse turns fatal.

Never makes you a priority

Naturally, you want to put what you love or who you love as a priority. And Vice versa.

If your partner isn’t putting you as a priority in their lives and skipping plans with you for others, then this should really tell you just how important you are in their lives.

It’s not enough for people to tell you that you are important, you also have to feel it.