Words brought you two together in the first place. You saw him/her and said something to draw attention. And since then you have been using words to communicate your feelings and settle your misunderstandings. However, using certain words or phrases when speaking to your lover can dramatically change the flow and melody of your love relationship, negatively. Here are fifteen things you must never say to your lover.
1. I miss my ex
2. I am already tired of you.
3. Why don’t you behave/dress like…
4. You are stupid/foolish…
5. You disgust me
6. I would have faired better without you
7. You’re bad luck in my life
8. I curse the day I met you
9. You are just useless here
10. Look at your mates out there
11. I wished I had your friend instead of you
12. You are not good enough
13. I hate you
14. You’re now fat
15. One you, I wish to wake up to an empty bed
Discussion
The terribleness of these words is beyond explanation. Not only do they make your lover sad and broken, but they also sink your relationship into a turbulent wave. You should be mindful of your mouth and the words that emerge there forth. You two are lovers, not perfect beings. As much as you see faults in her, she also sees faults in you. And vice versa.
So, make each other feel loved and appreciated. Avoid comparison. Look away from other people’s “amazing love life”. Not all you see is what you see. Be happy with your lover. You two are all you have.
Now go back and take note of the fifteen things you must never say to your lover.
I’ll see you in the next post.
