After being seen as the villain since 2016, news recently broke that Johnny Depp was actually the victim of domestic violence from Amber Heard and not the other way round. There are many lessons to learn from their break up and the drama that followed.
No relationship or
person is perfect even if they appear to be perfect like Amber Heard
No matter how perfect a person or relationship appear, they may not be so perfect after all. Many times we look at our own relationship while comparing it with other people’s supposedly perfect ones. It’s one deceit you should not fall to. We see a Johnny Depp and Amber Heard and we say ‘How I wish I can be happy like them’. Lie! Evidently, they were not that happy. They were busy chopping each other’s hands and making false accusations against each other. What we see when we look at people is a façade, you need to stay with them to see the real thing.
Taking Sides of Amber
Heard Against Johnny Depp
As human beings, we like to take sides, make a demon of a
partner and make a saint of the other one but the reality is that it is not in
our place. We were not with them in the relationship or marriage. We are mere
observers and no matter how much we think we know based on one person’s
exclusive, we really may not know that much after all. In this case, we had all
joined Amber Heard to lambast and crucify Johnny Depp. This had caused him to lose
face, reputation and jobs. We all need to hear the two parties before ever
taking sides and if possible, refrain from taking sides.
Refrain from sharing gory details of your break up online
Amber Heard was quick to share details of her break up and in trying to get people’s acceptance and attention, she lied against Johnny Depp. This is what being ‘woke’ can cause and this is responsible for her present predicament. What would go wrong if you decide not to share details of your breakup with the world? The world has no right to know except you empower them to.
Never Lie Against
Your Ex or Partner
Lying against your ex or partner may get people’s attention for a moment but it may come to haunt you in the court of law when contrary evidence are produced. In this case, surveillance camera and witnesses have been produced to the court as evidence against Amber Heard by Johnny Depp.
Don’t Date Devils
One of the biggest mistakes you can make as a man or woman
is to date the devil’s incarnate. If you date such people, they would not care
whether your life and career gets destroyed as long as their own flourishes.
Imagine that there were no witnesses and there were no surveillance cameras to
prove that Amber Heard lied, Johnny Depp would have remained silenced. His career would be over and reputation lost
forever.
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