Having a crush on someone feels like being in a fantasy land. You can’t stop thinking about them, your heart skips for a bit each time you set your eyes on them, you like to be around them and always imagine both of you together, but the harsh realization hits you that they might not feel the same way about you. That hurts, I know.
Making your crush to get attracted to you is a long and gradual process but when it does happen it makes you feel on top of the world. So, if you have a crush that isn’t looking your way, this is for you. Here is a few tips to make your crush get attracted to you
1. Be yourself
It is better for people to like you for who you are and not what you are not. Some people adopt fake personality just to impress a certain person. When you pretend to be someone you are not, it may work for a while but when the person finds out, they will no longer trust you and your purpose will be defeated. Being yourself is the key to being likable.
If you only admire your crush from afar, there is no way they can notice you exist. I know you may be shy to talk to them but you need to develop the courage to start a conversation with them. Approach them, be yourself and make your conversation as enjoyable as possible. This will make your crush to start having some interest in you.
3. Use body language
Another way to communicate how you feel is by using body language. This can make your crush know that you are interested in them. In conversations, maintain eye contact, always smile, talk openly, be a good listener and give the appropriate response.
4. Hang out together
If you don’t hang out with the person you like, then both of you would never get time to bond or connect on a personal level. You can invite them to the movies or a party. Sharing some memories together will make them think about you and gradually have interest in you.