Your crush wouldn’t just fall head-over-heels for you at first sight. That rarely happens. But there are tips you can follow to help you maximize your chances of getting her to fall in love with you after that first sight.
It is true that understanding how a female behaves in an incomplete science. That is because what works for Lady A might not for Lady B. Regardless, experiences with different types of ladies over the years have shown that as a guy, you can get the lady you desire to fall for you using the following tips.
1. Mind games
You’ve probably heard this from Jose Mourinho. But he didn’t invent the magic neither did he create the word. Basically, mind games are psychological tactics employed to get a desired outcome. In the case of your crush, it is a set of steps and actions that you have to put in place to crawl under her skin just so she looks favorably at your interest in her.
It goes this way:
Ladies generally like attention. That you drool over her, complement her, try to call and text her is a strength you’ve empowered her with. The mind game here is to cut that off.
Walk into the room where she is, greet others, but greet her only with a passing wave. When you’re in close proximity, ignore the urge to look at or talk to her. If it’s just you two, go out or get busy with your phone.
What this does to her is that it shifts her off balance. She tends to think, “what went wrong?” And that is good for you as often, such lady will come seeking your face or an explanation.
When that happens, get friendly with her. But still, do not drool, yet.
2. Play more mind games
Once you’ve passed the stage of speaking to her physically for a longer stretch of time, ensure you help her to have an amazing time with you. But after that, avoid calling or texting her too much.
A little, “have you gotten home call” is enough. Or a text saying, “Hi, I hope you got home safe”. Don’t push the conversation beyond that.
This mind game puts the girl on a ride of thoughts. She begins to wonder about this and that. And that is good for you because she finally gets to think of you.
3. Send her sparse complement
Of course she is the girl that makes your heart skip a beat. But don’t let that show in your face. When she wears something nice and gorgeous, send her a text saying that and move on. Chances are that she will try to dress up even better the next time. When the next time comes, do not complement her.
In many cases, she will bring this up when she eventually gets to talk to you. Now, smile then complement her dressing and beauty.
I bet she will smile.
4. Work on yourself
Girls by nature swoon to what they hear. But also, they are attracted by what they see.
What you need to is invest in your looks. Get a clean hair cut. Take care of your beards -if you have some. Puff some biceps and chest muscles. Dress in those nice clothes you’ve got. And add a bit of confidence in your gait.
What better, wear an impeccable smile when walking about her.
She will notice you. But hey, don’t say more than a word to her.
5. Buy her random gifts
Like it is with looks and words, girls love gifts.
At this point she already thinks of you. So, any gift you get her will only help to increase your ranking in her heart. Just make sure what you get her is worthy of her being. And do not seek her appreciation.
This is you winning her over without she consciously knowing that.
It works. More that 80% of times.
6. Ask her out on a date
At this stage, she has passed the phase of not knowing you. Ask her out on a date. It is thereafter left to you to make the most out of your hard work.
You can thank me latter for the tips.
Ciao!
