Getting a great guy is not as easy as it seems. First, there are only a few such guys around. And those around have been scouted. Now, you might have found your way into his attention, but then you are scared. “What can I do to make him like more than a friend?” “What can I do to make him take the next step?” Enough of those bothersome thoughts because you’re in luck. In this post, you’ll get to know about nine habits you must avoid if you want him to ask you out.
1. Restrain your jealousy. He is not yours, yet. Let him do his thing. Chances are that he knows you like him, and he likes you too. Let him be; he’ll come back to you.
2. Dressing shabbily.
3. Playing hard-to-get. Even when he likes you, your decision to put up a show might send him the wrong signal that you don’t like him.
4. Throwing yourself at him. A man is a competitive being. Do not make the mistake of making yourself easily accessible. Let him work for your attention. I know this sounds like a contrast to number three. But it is not. You need to draw a fine line of the difference between playing hard-to-get and being too accessible.
5. Ignoring his soft spots. Don’t do that. Take him out on a treat. Surprise him. Spoil him, even. A man naturally does not get pampered. But deep down he yearns for it. Do it. You’ll score greatly in his heart. Trust me.
6. Nagging, complaining, and being aggressive. No man wants to date or marry a whirlwind.
7. Flirting. A man does not like it when a girl he is interested in flirts with other guys. Don’t send the wrong message to him. You can get a guy to like you by flirting with other guys.
8. Acting like the police. Do. Not. Do. This. It’s a huge turn-off for any guy.
9. Ignoring things of interest to him. One of the full proof ways to make him trip for you has remain sharing his interest. Do it.
Here you go, my dear friend, nine habits you must avoid if you want him to ask you out.
