There are several tips on this topic. But I’ll focus on the 5 most important ways to ensure that your partner keeps on caring for and loving you -no matter what.

1. Respect him/he

Everybody loves to be respected -including your (wo)man. So, to retain your partner’s care and love, ensure that you avoid shouting at him/her; ensure that you allow them the audience to speak, and consider their opinions when taking decisions -especially those that affect you two.

2. Show you love him/her, overtly

Wake up on a Saturday morning and play your partner’s favorite love track loudly in the house. Pull his/her hand over and revel! 

Not married yet?

Never shy away from every opportunity to publicly show him/her your love the. How? Call him/her sweet names before your friends, before his/her friends even. Make (s)he feel that it’s him/her, no one else. And make sure you’re not deceiving.

3. Cook for him/her

No story. Go and cook for your lover. Bye bye! 

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4. Show appreciation

Do not be a sponge. Show appreciation. It goes a long way in making your lover feel you value his/her effort.

Want to do better? Appreciate your lover with an awesome gift!

5. Tell your lover how you love to be loved and cared for

Often, you commit the mistake of expecting your lover to understand the things you don’t say. (S)he is not God the All-knowing. 

If you want something added to or subtracted from the current dose of love you receive, be open about it. That way you help your lover to satisfy you.

There you go, 5 effective tips to keep your lover’s care and love.