Getting a lady to say yes at any point in your relationship can be a daunting task. Yes, you two have been on good talking terms, but chances are that she does not see you the way you think she does. It is a common mistake guy make. You think because a girl smiles at your, wink at you, laugh at your jokes, that means she’s into you. This thought often leads most guys into the mistake of misshooting. Eventually, you become a member of the brother and friend zone. It should not be. This is why you must avoid the following if you want her to say “yes”.
1. Whining
This part is simple as anything. Avoid making unnecessary and excessive complaints into her precious eardrums. A female is romantically attracted to a man who is a man. Not one who has no idea how to put his woes on a leash. You don’t want to come across to her as another girlfriend she can sit with and share how she has issues with the workload in school, work, and pressure from her parents. Likewise, you don’t want to appear like a wimp who does nothing but talk about what XYZ did that is unfair to him.
A lady is attracted to a man who has his acts together. Get your acts together and watch how you become the pillar she reclines on for solace. That is how a lady builds an emotional connection with you. You have to be the ears that listen to her. Not the other way round.
2. Lack of focus
As a young man, chances are that you’re constantly trying to understand yourself. There is a name for it. Becoming. Yeah, being at this stage is not a problem a lady can’t put up with. What becomes a thing of disinterest for the lady is when today you want to be a hip-hop artist. Tomorrow you’re going to the studio to record your track. Then, suddenly, next tomorrow, you decide you now want to be a real estate agent.
These are turn-offs for a lady. Females, in general, seek in their would-be partner signs of resoluteness. A lot of them do not mind building with you. Want they are very careful of is waiting with a man without a focus. Do not be without a focus.
3. Stinginess
A lot of sins can be forgiven in a man by a lady. But the sin of stinginess is a no-no. A lady will always be attracted to a man that can afford to take care of her -regardless of her money- and who spends his money on her without many restraints.
If you want her to say yes, you must shower her with lots of gifts and trips. That way she sees you as someone she can begin a relationship with.
4. Laziness
This in itself needs little to no explanation. No lady on earth will develop a thing for a lazy man. It is that plain and simple.
So there you go, my friend, four habits you must avoid if you want her to say, “yes”.
I will see you in the next post.
