Time to dust your shoes and
run when these things happen in your relationship
One might think everybody has one ugly tale of relationship going by stories shared on social media, experiences read about and lot more. Time to dust your shoes and run when these things happen in your relationship
Sometimes,
however, there are obvious relationship decisions that need to be made;
decisions that you need no validations from outsider. Once you feel trapped in a relationship it is
time to step on those clutches and forget about hitting the breaks.
Here
are few things that just might give you a clue that it’s time to start a race.
You are bored of each others
company
I have never seen a relationship where spending time with each other is one thing both partner dread. I mean, how do you explain not looking forward to seeing each other? Once you notice that when he calls, you have doubts whether to talk to him or not or when he shows up at your doorstep you silently pray for patience before you open the door or you make several excuses to avoid it altogether, then its time to leave.
You are always at each other
throat
Lovers’ squabble will definitely happen however it should be a very healthy one. If all you do is take a go at each other especially going for the lowest points in your partner’s life it is time to take a walk. When all you do is purposely set out to hurt each other then you might as well just walk away and end things.
If
all you do is tear each other apart limb by limb as opposed to resolving the
cause of your disputes, you really may want to just let go of the toxic
relationship. This might move 0rettt fast from 0-100 when violence begins.
You just have resentment
rather than respect
What’s the point of being with someone you feel resentful of? There is a thing line between love and hate, they said. if right now all you feel is the later what is the point to it all? Resentment builds up as a result of unresolved issues and conversations you shied away from having.
However,
If you have had this conversation many times to no avail, it may be time to
really consider getting out of the relationship.
Little or No Communication
Over the years, it has been established that Communication is the key to a successful marriage. You don’t like something? Talk about it. You love something, say it. Besides what brings to people together in the first place is communication but when this fades. When there is no hope of getting it back. When you become sleeping partners without using much words, it is the end and I suggest you get your shoes, dust them and leave.
