As a man, it’s a thing of worry that you’ve done all things possible to win the attention of that lady you love, yet she is not taking you seriously. You have thought of many ways to change this. You have even gone to the length doing all you shouldn’t do. All to no avail. Well, my brother, it’s not that difficult to determine the rationale for this. Here are three simple reasons why is not taking you seriously.
1. She is not ready for a relationship
There’s the saying that you can’t force a horse to take a drink. Likewise, you can’t have a lady who is not ready for a relationship consider you for one. It is not rocket science. She possibly has told you times without number that she is not ready. Well, most ladies do so, anyway. That explains the reason why your “I love you” meets the bland response of “thank you”. And other love-like gestures you’ve extended have remained one-sided.
It’s a pretty weird thing that some of us think the lady will change her mind after a while. Do you think she is playing hard-to-get? Smiling. The simple truth is that some ladies are not ready when they are not ready. And even when you buy them all that money can buy, you’ll not have their love. What you will get is a woman who says “thank you” and not “I love you” from her heart.
2. You talk more than you do
Talk and do. That’s what most ladies want in a man. A lady would love a man who is reliable with his words, and like the weather doesn’t change indiscriminately. Check yourself. What are the things you’ve told her you would do for yourself and for her that repeatedly remains undone?
That’s a possible reason why she is not taking you seriously. To love a man, a lady needs lots of reassurance that you are a good partner for her. Saying what you don’t do and doing what you don’ say are a great turn-off. She will never take you seriously unless you change.
3. She has other (better) options
Because of experience, some ladies have developed a way of saving themselves from sudden heartbreaks. Call it a coping mechanism. Or a lifeline. A great reason why she is not taking you seriously could be because you have others before or after you. And one or two of these alternatives are better than you, in her view.
It’s like a game of food. To her, there is her best food, a good food and a piece of fruit. She determines what you are. So if she is not taking you seriously, you are probably not her best option.
That’s why.
Advice:
As much as all of the above is true, as a guy, you must note that there are a lot of chances for you to become better. Becoming that man every woman would love to have made you stand out, and never will you have the problem of worrying over a girl who does not take you seriously. So, focus on yourself. Develop yourself. And watch how other you naturally attract a better woman.
That will be all for now. I will see you in the next post.
