You two have been together for so long, yet he is not taking you seriously. You are wondering why, and confused over how you can get him to act otherwise. In truth, you are bothered about the time you have invested fearful that it becomes a waste. My dear friend, all of your concerns are indeed legit. No woman or lady should spend a little more than a week with a man who has nothing to offer. That is why in this post, I shall share with you three reasons why he is not taking you seriously.
1. He has no plans for you
As crude as this may sound, it is the truth in most situations. Guys and men go into romantic relationships for different reasons. And the majority of these men and guys have plans in mind -good or bad. So, the peak of the reason why he is not taking you seriously is that what you think of your relationship is not what he thinks.
To you, he is your lover, your confidant, and all of the good stuff. But, sadly, to him, he is none of that to you. Thus, his lack of seriousness in the relationship.
2. He is no longer into you
Like number one, another reason why he is not taking you seriously is that he is no longer into you. Men are calculative in nature. Romantic affairs are exercises of adding 2 and 2 together. So, when it becomes clear to them that a lady no longer sits well in their romantic calculations, they tend to become what they were not when the relationship begins.
A man who is no longer into you will never take you seriously. He has other plans, which, sadly, do not involve you, dear friend. This is bitter, but it’s the truth.
3. You are not the only one
There is a synergy between reasons one, two, and three. When a man stops taking you seriously, it’s because he now has options.
See it like this, a child with one lollipop. Versus a child with a dozen. It becomes easy for me to misbehave when they know that already they have choices. If A goes, there’s B and C and D and more.
Advice:
Nothing breaks the heart of a lover than when she becomes taken for granted. But my dear, when despondency becomes the norm in your relationship, it is time to begin to think of moving on.
NO man deserves your love once you perceive that he is no longer committed to you.
However, before confirming he doesn’t, speak to him. Give him three chances. If no changes, my dear, bounce!
