You probably have heard of the assertion that happiness is free. And truly, beyond its overuse, this simple statement is entirely correct about the pursuit of happiness. Getting it and getting right are determined by your deliberateness. There are several actions that you can take to increase your chances of becoming happy in your relationship. To put it simply, here are four rules of happiness you should know.
Rule 1
To be happy, you MUST be selfless in your relationship. By professing that you love your partner, you need to substantiate your words with actions that affirm your stance. Be selfless in how you love your lover. Be selfless in how you care and pamper his or her. Make sure that their happiness is your utmost concern. And watch how much of that happiness returns to you in abundance.
To put it concisely, make your partner happy if you desire genuine happiness.
Rule 2
Show gratitude. There is no telling how much joy returns to a person who shows sincere appreciation. Like showing love, your partner feels appreciated by your show of gratitude. It makes him or her understand that you see his or her efforts and acknowledge them. That way, your lover will continue to go out of his/her way to make you glad.
Rule 3
Tell and show your lover how you want to be loved. Communication is a major ingredient in the pursuit of happiness in your relationship. Ensuring that you always have open communication with your partner increases your chances of being happy. More than that, it betters your love life as a unit.
Rule 4
Do not compare. Never compare your relationship with any other person’s. Comparison is the thief of joy. It will only cause problems in your relationship. Refrain from it if you desire to be happy.
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These are four simple rules you should never let loose of. It guarantees you ultimate happiness.
