Six things you should not say to your ex

Breakups happen for a reason and the most important thing is to learn from it and move on rather than beating yourself up on why things didn’t work out.Some people tend to communicate hoe they feel to their ex and this make them look desperate. If you really want to heal on time, there are some things you should not say to your ex

1. Can we still be friends

Trust me when I say this isn’t a great idea. You do not want to be friends with your ex as it only makes you think about getting back with them. You should stay away from anything that reminds you of your ex especially when the breakup is really bad

2. I’m dating someone new and they are better than you

Although a little bit of jealousy can actually be a useful tool and help you get your ex back, you have to do so “under the radar”. If your ex believes you are going out of your way to make them jealous, it will almost certainly make them angry and make the situation even worse. When you try to illicit a jealous response from your ex in this manner it will only make them resent you.

3. I never should have dated you

Most times, you end up regretting the words you said when you were angry. A lot of people will lash out in anger at their ex for taking their love for granted and giving up on them. This won’t help you win back their love or repair your relationship. It will only affect your emotions and prevent you from healing on time.

4. I still love you

You are showing too much interest when you tell your ex you still love them or ask if they still love you. What you should be doing is pushing your ex away. This lack of interest that you should be portraying to your ex is key to making them forget about the bad aspects of your relationship and as a result, they will begin to miss you.

5. You broke my heart

When you let your ex know that they have this effect on you, it’s like giving them the keys to your life. Saying this to your ex won’t make them value you. Even if they broke your heart, you can take your time to grieve and afterwards ensure that you heal completely.

6. I hated how you treated me

Anger and confrontation is a recipe for disaster. If you truly feel that your ex treated you poorly, then there is no reason whatsoever to get back to them. Should in case you are just saying this to elicit an emotional response, it’s a bad idea. It will only make them feel on top of the world and they might resent you.