Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo started by saying that sex is not proof of love. He said that people always ask how they can know that they are compatible with their partners sexually if they don’t have sex. The truth is that the way God designed marriage when you meet your husband or your wife both of you will start learning how to please and pleasure each other.
He added that the experience people gather by sleeping together will not be useful where they are going because you have a PhD in sex and the person you are going to marry has only OND. According to his direct words, he said;
“All the skills you are acquiring are not useful where you are going.” He says that what brings dissatisfaction when it comes to sex amongst couples is that, one is an expert and the other person is a novice. The expert is never satisfied because he/she has gathered so much experience that is not needed where she is going. So they always put pressure on the other person.
He rounded up by saying that there is nothing like sexual compatibility but there is something called sexual commitment where both of you serve each other in your marriage.
