Is Love at First Sight True Love?

Love at First Sight, Cannot Be Categorised As True Love. 

This is because love is deeper than just meeting someone for the first time. How can you explain feeling such a powerful explosion of emotions for someone you don’t really know. Love at first sight could actually just be an attraction at first sight.

You may gradually fall into True love with the person but that will be further into the relationship. It can be an overwhelming feeling that feels like love but it isn’t.

He picked your books after hitting you and you can’t stop thinking about him.  How do you know it’s love at first sight?

How Does Love At First Sight Feel Like?

1. You Have The Butterfly/Electricity Feeling: The ButterFly Feeling is a response triggered by adrenaline. It comes when you are anxious or when you are anticipating something positive. Love at first sight comes as a surprise because you never expected someone looking so beautiful or your spec walking straight into the room you are in.

You are so anxious and star-struck.

2. You feel in Sync: When you eventually get to talk, you both feel like you are in sync. Like you are made for each other or like you have met them before. In this period, you have to be careful because people are not always who they say they are. 

3. You Get Comfortable: Most times, because you people feel you think alike, you begin to get comfortable with them. It’s like a feeling of familiarity. Like it’s not your first time meeting but you know it is. This is where you hear ‘there was an instant connection when we both met for the first time.’

4. You Become Warm And Safe: It’s almost like you are meeting someone from a past life so you just feel this warmth and safety around you.

5. You Can’t Get Them Out Of Your Head

They are stuck with you permanently for life. Once you let them into your mind, they will not be leaving your thoughts any time soon.

6. Your Body Language Changes.

At this point, you can’t really control how you smile or flip your hair and adjust your cloth. Sometimes, you may even change how you talk and accent so you could look extremely classy. All this is normal, you are not been dramatic. 

7. You Are Curious About Them

When you fall in love at first sight, you will want to know more about the person. You will want to know their likes, dislikes, hobbies and all so you can at least get an idea of what they are like. When you know these things, you’ll know how to act when you are with them.

Now that you know what love at first sight feels like, it would be awesome to know the Misconceptions about it. That is the incorrect and wrong understanding of love at first sight. 

Misconceptions About Love At First Sight

1. It’s Destiny: You have watched too many Zee world and Korean movies that tell you that when you see them, you just know. Excuse me, you just know what please? You know nothing about them. You were told that when you have butterflies and you start feeling like there are fireworks in your brain then that’s your soulmate.

Anything can spark that adrenaline. Don’t be too forward. They might just be a normal person that is just good looking. Love at first sight is not destiny. You better stop living in the movies.

2. Love at First Sight Doesn’t mean Love at Second Sight: You felt the spark the first day you saw them but have you tried the second time? Was the spark still there. After finding out a feel things about them did they still look attractive to you? If it was on a date you met for the first time, do something different from what you did and see if the sparks still shine bright. 

3. The feeling Is Mutual: Now because you are feeling someone doesn’t mean the person is feeling you. Don’t let Disney deceive you with their fairytale stories where they meet the prince for the first time and they bought and fell in love.

In some scenarios, you might be the only one who is into the person or vice versa. This sometimes leads to secret admirers and crushes.

4. When it’s Mutual, It Means It Will Last: Love honestly has no rules. There’s no rule on how to get a perfect relationship but there are guidelines you can take to get one but this doesn’t even guarantee that you’ll find one. If you both got attracted to each other at the first sight, it’s a good thing but that doesn’t mean you’ll have a long-lasting relationship.