You found true love in 2021? Are you kidding! That’s a huge big deal, my friend. And we at Love live are sincerely happy for you and your lover. It’s no child’s play that you two have stayed this long together in a year filled with breakfast of different. Ko easy rara. For that reason, as part of our end-of-the-year relationship collection, we curate for you, ten best relationship nuggets to help you strengthen your love life with your partner.
Nugget one: Communication
Communication. If there is one thing new and old lovers need to take away from 2021, it is the fact that communication is an indispensable fabric of your relationship. You and your partner must ensure you continually strengthen your habits of communication. Be aware that beyond just conversing communication revolves around your lives. It is integral in your individual and collective happiness, your emotional stability, your sex life, your quarrels and settlement, and your profession of love and affection.
Do not take this pillar of romantic happiness for granted.
Nugget two: Forgiveness
There is a quote by the great poet, Khalil Gibran that “men who do not forgive women their fault will never enjoy their virtues”. That in itself captures the message here. As a man, you need to constantly overlook the slights of your woman. Ditto for the woman too. The major component of a healthy relationship is forgiveness.
When you err, seek it correctly. When your partners seek it, grant them gladly. That way love will forever revolve around your hearts.
Nugget three: Understanding
The three nuggets, communication, forgiveness and understanding go hand-in-hand most times. In your love life, always seek to make your partner understand you. Likewise, always do the same for him/her.
Understanding comprises of giving excuses for your partner when (s)he errs. Also, it features slowness to anger. Be understanding when (s)he is cranky, moody, anxious or unbalanced. This shows your degree of care and compassion.
Nugget four: Interdependence
No single person has it all. That is why humans are naturally conditioned to be social in the first place. With you and your partner, establish a great level of interdependence.
You two know your strengths and weaknesses. Always seek to complement each other -without being asked.
To add a bit of fun to it: you can strike out a division of labor pact. I do A, you do B.
Most importantly, communicate and pick that which works best for you two.
Nugget five: Try something new
It is normal to get bored with routines. Do not make your relationships mechanical. Try something new. Lookup blog sites like lovelive.ng. Seek newer tips on doing the same thing. Make your partner awestruck at the creative thought you’ve put in getting stuff done.
The kicker here is that this fuels your relationship with energy and vigor. You two become constantly engaged, actively, in bringing up novelty into your love life. And nothing beats this in a relationship.
So, here you have it, the five best relationship nuggets for you and your lover to hold on to as the year wraps up.
See you in the next post, my friend!
