Five signs you love your partner more than he/she loves you

Maintaining a strong, peaceful and healthy relationship involves a sense of balance. There should be an equal exchange of sacrifice, love, affection and closeness. Don’t forget that a relationship is a two-way street and all parties involved should be committed into making things work. A single person’s effort cannot hold a relationship. To ensure the durability and quality of a relationship, it must always be a joint effort between two people.

You might be wondering how you can know if your relationship is out of balance.

In this article, I shared five signs that you love your partner more than they love you. This will help you identify areas where your relationship needs improvement.

1. Your partner never make you feel like you are part of their future

Most times, your partner makes plans without you and you never feel like you are part of their future. They almost never include you in the planning process so you always feel excluded.

2. You are hardly asked for your ideas on opinions or issues

Your partner is unbothered about what you have to say or think. They make their decision without involving you. Your speculations and thoughts are unimportant with that person you are head over heels for.

3. You find yourself competing with their friends for their time

In a relationship, you should never feel like you are competing for your partner’s time. Allow your partner to enjoy their own life, but they should also set out the time for you. If you that they create more time for their friends then there is an imbalance that should be addressed.

4. You are tired of having to make them happy all of the time.

You always feel like its your responsibility to keep the relationship happy. But the ironic thing is that you are the one who is unsatisfied and unhappy and the pressure is really starting to get to you.

5. Your partner doesn’t really question you on your personal ;life

A person who is truly in love with you will want to know everything about you.  If they act as if they don’t care about you this is a sign that they don’t love you as much as you think or as much as they claim they do.