There is no divinely fixed relationship out there. For most people, it’s an affair that requires tons of trial and error until the right match is made. Finding love and maintaining it are, thereafter, two different things. While some build relationships easily and solidly, others struggle from one point to another. Possibly, you are among the latter. You have been in one, two, three, several relationships already, yet no sign of commitment from anyone. Here are five reasons why your relationships keep failing.
1. You never love fully
Commitment in a relationship is one of the determiners of love that will stand the test of time. Check yourself. Have you been as committed as your last partners over time? Do you make your actions speak louder than your words? Do you match the energy and conscientiousness your exes put into the relationship?
Not meeting one’s lover halfway in the relationship is one of the most common reasons why relationships fail. It could be one you are lacking too.
2. You love too much
Converse to not loving enough, loving blindly, or too much in a relationship -especially with the wrong person- is another reason why your relationships keep failing. Of course, to show love in large quantity towards one’s partner is a great thing. However, when you become susceptible to being the “loving girl or boy” in the face of a bad lover, he or she begins to take you for granted knowing fully well that you will still be there with more love.
3. Bad communication
Bonds in a relationship are only established after both parties have set out ways to speak, listen and understand each other. More than any reason, miscommunication, or lack of it has remained a key reason for fallouts in relationships. In your case, what do you think? Have you been the bad communicator or the persons you have been in love with?
4. Temperament
Are you the angry bird? Or, is it the persons you have been in love with? Anger is a potent poison that ruins relationships irrespective of how lovely it is. If it’s you, it’s time to work on it. If it’s your exes, you have now to look better before falling in love.
5. Absence of compromise
To love and stay happy together requires lots of compromises. One of the reasons why your relationships keep failing could be because neither of your will hit a compromise.
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Now that you know these, what will you do differently in your new relationship?
