Dangers Of Having A Sugar Daddy

As much as a lot of people claim that there are advantages, the only big reason and advantage most girls go into is that they go into it for the money. When you have a sugar daddy, it’s lots of money, gifts, vacations and much enjoyment. As enticing as it sounds, there are dangers to it, in fact, the whole thing is really scary. 

Here in Nigeria, a sugar daddy is a married man who is dating a younger person. Like a 50-year-old married man dating a 25-year-old single lady. If he is not married, he’s not really referred to as a Daddy. It would just be that you are dating someone older than you and it will be a normal relationship. But once he’s married, he becomes a sugar daddy. 

What Are The Dangers Of Having A Sugar Daddy?

You Will Have To Hide On Dates

 In some cases, you can’t even go on dates. You can’t be seen outside by anyone because you don’t know who knows your sugar daddy’s wife. It’s even worse when the wife suspects that her husband is cheating on her.  Why not date someone you’ll love to be seen with? Anyway, most people don’t go into it for love, they go for the money involved. 

You Can’t Call Them Whenever You Like

This is because you are trying to be as cautious as you can. You don’t know when they are with their family or not. It is not only in films that the real wives pick the calls of your sugar daddy, it happens in real life. You are also careful about what you text because generally, anyone could be with his phone and your message might pop up.

In some scenarios, the family of your sugar daddy might have no clue but when they see a pop-up from your message, they become curious, they read it and then you are caught. 

You can Be Blackmailed

In some cases, when the wives or somebody else catches you, you can be Blackmailed and this might get really bad. Some might demand money and it won’t stop. So apparently, you are sleeping with your sugar daddy to pay someone else. Wasted efforts! 

Sometimes, it can even be the wife who caught you and decides to blackmail you to do whatever she wants. Either way, anything can happen to you and you are not guaranteed that your blackmailer will keep to their end of the deal, i.e not saying a word to anybody about your relationship with your sugar daddy. 

The way girls are nowadays, some are not moved by a petty blackmailer. They’ll happily tell you to go on and they’ll ignore you. 

Threats

The goal is not to get caught but if you are, OYO is your case. OYO, On Your Own. After getting caught, sometimes you won’t know because they probably saw your message on their husband’s phone or they saw the two of you together or they suspected he was cheating and they stalked him and found you, whichever way, your cover has been blown.

Get Ready to receive threats. At this phase, just leave the man and go because some of these threats are not empty threats. They will do what they said they will do. You watch the news and see that a woman killed her husband for cheating or she killed the girl he was cheating on her with. Or that a woman poured acid on a girl’s face or hot water. 

Some people are crazy to that extent so if you don’t want to be an experiment and appear on breaking news then, leave that man and get a job probably. In some cases, if the kids of the man you are sleeping with are already big, hmmm, you are in trouble because no one will let a young lady they are probably the same age with or even older, give their mother stress. No child will allow that. You won’t allow it, I won’t allow it.

Anything can happen to you when you get caught. As calm as it may look, your life is at risk.