If you’re a Nigerian man who is currently in a relationship or trying to woo a girl you like, it’s okay to be a little scared this December because those Abroad guys are here to turn their heads a little bit.
The Abroad show up once every year in December and while their intention is never to steal anyones boo, something they do.
If you’re not careful, you just might end the year completely booless.
What can you do to prevent these Abroad men from stealing your girl?
The very short answer is do Nothing!
There is nothing you can to to prevent someone from getting stolen if it’s not something they’re already willing to do.
These Abroad guys arehere to have fun and the time of their life before heading back. They are not looking for a long term commitment in most cases.
You see, if it’s so easy for the girl you’re dating or the girl you have shown intentional interest in to be carried away by a new “IJGB”, man, then that completely sums up your entire relationship.
This is the proof you need that your “bae” who you love so much was never yours to begin with.
Let them be stolen away if they want to be stolen away.
As painful as it might be, it’s best to not try to force anything.
At the same time, you should try not to let your insecurities make you paranoid because that might trigger the person you’re with to take some actions that might negatively affect your relationship.
You have to operate your relationship on a deep level of trust or else it’s really not worth it.
Listen, They only reason you should be sweating over a girl this December is if you’ve made her your wife. Until then, the only only person you should be that strung up over is yourself.
What you can do is make this month a special one for you and your bae. And if your still in the along process of wooing a girl, it’s time to hit the nails on it and finalize it.
Talk about your insecurities if you are insecure and have then resssure you. Don’t be scared to be open and vulnerable. Take them out to fun places.
Find different ways to spark up your relationship.
Yes it’s true that these Abroad guys are here right now, but, just believe that what is yours and will never leave you.
