8 Things Guys Wish Women Knew About French Kissing

French kissing is perceived to be a youthful thing to do. Perhaps, adults are actually in need of French kissing than they think.
There are adults that need to learn to French kiss. Because French kissing can be awesome; it’s slow, sensual, intimate only if you know what you’re doing. French kissing with a bad kisser is awful.
The sad fact is that speaking as a guy, we can’t always tell our partners that making out doesn’t feel good. It’s such an aggressive, purpose-driven kiss that it feels awkward to stop and talk.
Most of us learned how to French kiss at a really early age, back when we couldn’t expect much judgment. (Everyone just wanted to touch stuff and tell their friends.) But it can be such an amazing thing to add to your romantic skill set if you’re willing to put the work in.
With that in mind, ladies, here are 8 things your man wishes he could tell you about how to French kiss — the right way.

1. Don’t start with your mouth wide open.

It’s good to be eager, but attacking your man like you’re about to dominate a food contest isn’t the way to start a hot session of French kissing. Your lips shouldn’t be locked shut either.
Keep your lips parted slightly; just enough that a tongue could work its way inside, if it wanted to, and go from there.

2. When it comes to kissing, the tempo is everything.

Making out isn’t about racing to the end. It’s all about building to a crescendo together.
You work your way up to it. Get things ready. Start soft and gradually introduce more and more pressure and pace.

3. Nobody likes an aggressive tongue.

This is a common mistake when it comes to French kissing; when one person just shoves their tongue into the other person’s mouth way too hard. You may think they’re coming across as passionate, but, in reality, you’re just being tone-deaf and needy.
It’s like a man deciding that he really likes a woman, so, in order to arouse her, he jams his fingers aggressively into her crotch. That won’t ever stimulate her clitoris. It’s just going to make everyone uncomfortable.

4. Be careful of teeth.

The same rule applies to oral sex. Biting is a no-no 99.9 percent of the time.
Don’t try to pull off any sexy BDSM stuff with your teeth during a French kiss. It will almost certainly go wrong.

5. Let your tongues dance.

While that sounds weird, the idea behind it is sound. The goal in French kissing isn’t to explore every inch of your partner’s mouth with your tongue. It’s to be playful and passionate.
Think of your man’s tongue as your dance partner. Your tongues should circle around each other, touch gently. You work up momentum together, going from fast motions to slow, peaceful patterns.
Follow each other’s lead. You’re not trying to bring their mouth to orgasm. You’re just trying to kiss them in a way that feels amazing.

6. Constant contact isn’t necessary for a good French kiss.

The point of French kissing isn’t to have your mouths open and touching the entire time, so don’t feel like you need to have your faces perpetually mashed together.
It’s totally cool to break contact every now and again. Break it off, kiss his lips gently, tease him, make him anticipate you coming back into the embrace.
Remember: this isn’t a stamina contest. This is supposed to be sexy. Take breaks, dart in and out, have him work for it. It’s sexier that way.

7. Oral hygiene matters.

This might go without saying, but if you’re planning to kiss someone, make sure the mouth is clean. That means a lot of pre-kissing brushing and flossing, and you might want to think about your date night activities, too.
For example, if that’s how you plan to end the evening, it’s advisable that you don’t eat meals with onions at dinner or other stuff like that.

8. French kissing isn’t just about your tongues.

Tongues are not the only part of the experience. You also have to remember what to do with the rest of your body.
For starters, don’t smash your face into his face too hard in a vain attempt at seeming passionate. Pay attention to your hands. You can start with rubbing his back, but, as you get into it, feel free to let your hands roam.
If you have a trusting relationship, you can even hold his face in your hands while you kiss. Just remember to use everything at your disposal to make it a kiss to remember.

LAST LOVE TIP
In no way are we saying that your partner hasn’t been enjoying French kissing you. These are just some tips to make the kisses better for you and your partner.