Five ways to make your relationship stand the test of time

 

All relationships have their ups and down. When things are going well in a couple’s life, it is easier for them to get along. Trying to make things work becomes difficult for many couples during challenging times. Your love for each other is out to the test during these difficult times. It is important to know that when you are in a relationship, there will be happy times and difficult times. What matters the most is for your relationship to stand the test of time.

here’s a list of five ways to make your relationship stand the test of time

1. communication and commitment

Communication and commitment plays a very important role is keeping your relationship alive. A relationship where couples don’t communicate is bound to be destroyed within a twinkle of an eye. Also the commitment you put into being together cannot be overemphasized. Learn how to communicate openly with one another as you learn to commit to one another.

2. Actively pursue each other

Many couples expect their relationship to thrive while putting no effort into it. But that won’t happen until they both make sacrifices to make sure their relationship work. Some of the ways to show your partner you actually care include holding hands while conversing openly, listening carefully while looking into each other’s eyes and  letting your partner know how you feel about them on a regular basis

3. Work on issues as they arise

Most individuals are scared of dealing with issues when they arise because they feel they might lose their partner. Couples who don’t get through minor issues right away find bad times to be catastrophic. It is better to face the pain and work through it together than avoiding it and then it starts to pile up till it cannot be fixed anymore.

4. Don’t stonewall

Stonewalling occurs when you ignore your partner or refuse to participate. It is a power move designed to play with your partners emotions. It maintains a me versus you mentality in the relationship. A commitment to us against the world is required for a relationship to survive.

5. Go out on dates on a regular basis

To be able to overcome anything, you must have the desire to do so. If you feel genuinely attached to your spouse, you are more likely to do everything possible to make things work. You should go on dates with your partner on a regular basis to rekindle the love you share.