Contrary to the common talk that “men are scum”, there are several things you can do as a lady to protect yourself from being the next one to use that cliché. How? By preventing the disaster before it happens. In this post, I will share with you ten types of men you should never date.
1. The ladies’ man. He is a disaster in the making, trust me. He will give you love, no doubt. But with that will come a lot of stalking, arguing, reasons to nag, sadness, and you will be one doing all of these. Stay away from a ladies’ man.
2. The liar. Ugh! A man who lies? What on earth can’t he do? Definitely, a man that lies is no good guy to date a good lady.
3. The lazy one. All he does is snooze, moan, belch and do ‘big boy’. When a man has no arms for work, he’s got no back to bear your love. Never hold on to him.
4. The superstitious one. You want to get a firm grip of your psychological wellbeing, yeah? Stay away from a superstitious man, He is bound to make a mystery out of your relationship.
5. The abusive one. Naaaaa. He’s a no-no!
6. The deadbeat one. Is he irresponsible, and feels no remorse about it? He is the kind of man who will father a child he wouldn’t stay around to catter for. Don’t make a mistake.
7. The promiscuous one. Chances are that his philandering will cause you great pain and difficulty even though you had no part in his diggings. Protect yourself.
8. The hulk. When a man becomes famed for uncontrollable anger, it is wise for a lady to opt-out before it is too late. An angry man is not unusual in a relationship. But when anger becomes too much and too constant, you’ve got to find your way out of the gate on your feet.
9. The manipulative one. He always finds ways to make you feel bad for what you did not do wrong. A man like this will drive you crazy. Save yourself before it all begins.
10. The chronic procrastinator. A man like this lives in the future. “There’s always time for it”. Allow yourself the freedom to let go when his procrastination becomes destructive.
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As a lady seeking a serious relationship, it is important for you to project into what future you could possibly have with any man at the inception of your togetherness. Never fall prey to any of the men aforementioned.
