Pastor's Take On Love
Pastor Faith Oyedepo – Physical Attraction Is Not Enough To Build A Relationship
Published
2 years agoon
Pastor Faith Oyedepo has advised youths to look beyond physicalities when looking to build a long lasting relationship with your partner.
While being attracted to someone who you consider beautiful or handsome isn’t a bad thing, it should never be the whole basis of your relationship with them.
There should be a lot more that you look for in a person beyond just their physical looks.
Pastor Faith Oyedepo warns that with time, physical attraction will wear off.
That’s a reality of life. Nobody will ever remain the same forever. As we all get older, no matter how handsome or gorgeous we look, our looks will depreciate at some point.
Those defined abs will disappear, those rounded curves will sag, the face muscles will relax and the wrinkles will eventually come.
Even if you try to indulge in surgical procedures to make you look younger, at some point, they will all fade away.
What if the person you get married suddenly loses their physical feature through an accident?
Maybe a fire outbreak? Or breast cancer or goes blind?
So, if you go ahead to Mary someone based on just their physical looks, what then happens when those looks fade?
You should rather base your long term choice in partner in other intrinsic beauty.
As cliche as it might sound, inner beauty does not ever fade, but, outward beauty fades with time.
So, why it’s great to marry someone you find physically attractive, make sure that they have a beautiful personality too and character which will back up their outward beauty.