Have you ever found yourself asking if it’s love or obsession with a person?
Is a person in love with you? Or are they just really obsessed with you.
Thanks to romantic hollywood movies, we’ve all been led to believe that love should look a little bit like an obsession. In reality, an obsession is very scary and can even become fatal if it’s not controlled.
Most times, we pray for a person to be obsessed with us, but, can you really handle real obsession when it comes knocking?
These Are 5 Signs They Are Obsessed with You Not In Love
They Know Details of Your Life You’ve Never Shared with The
If a person knows a lot of details about your life and you’ve never told them, then there’s a very good chance they might be obsessed with you. Key note on a lot of details. It’s different if it’s just one tiny details that they innocently found out on their own, but if they seem to know a lot of details of your life which you’re sure you’ve never disclosed to them and neither has your friends and family, then it’s definitely a cause for you to raise your eye brows a bit.
They Stalk You
Have you found them lingering in places you go to? Have you felt stalked by them? Have you noticed them following everyone you’re following on social media?
A person who stalks you isn’t necessarily in love with you.
It’s not cute or romantic. You stalk a prey and you’re not a prey.
If you find yourself being watched all the time by the even when you’re not with them, then that’s a sign they might be obsessed with you.
They Get Jealous Easily And For No Reason
Jealousy in a relationship is very normal and even healthy. It’s a normal feeling to have a little jealousy when you are in love with someone but, it can get very unhealthy. When they start becoming jealous over the most random stuff and very easily then that’s a huge red flag you need to watch out for.
They might tell you it’s only because they love you so much. But, do they really love you or are they just obsessed with you!
They Hate When You Say No To Them
Nobody really likes being said No to but as humans it’s a fact we learn to live with and in time comfortable adjust with.
We are not always going to have people say yes to our every desire.
Have you noticed that they struggle a lot each time you tell them no? If they find it inconceivable each time you say No to their request and they always want you to do things they ask you to do, then they just might be obsessed with the idea of you not actually In love with you.
You Feel Like You Can’t Breathe Around Them, And Not In A Good Way
Everyone loves the person they love to have the ability to take their breath away in a beautiful butterfly inducing way.
However, with the wrong person, you can find your breath being taken from you, and not in a way that makes you stomach tingle happily.
If you feel like you’re suffocating each time they’re around you and you need some fresh air, then it’s a sign that your relationship with them isn’t healthy and you need to stay away.
A person who loves you will shower you with attention but they won’t seek to suffocate you with it. Loving someone also means allowing them love themselves and be present for themselves without you.
