I Will Only Lose Weight If It Affects My Sex Life – Adele

Back in 2012, the Hello crooner singer lashed back at critics who laughed at her figure and that she’ll only lose weight if it affected her sex life.  The singer then was a size 14. Apparently, the only thing she cared about concerning her weight was sex. She said she was not going to change for anyone and she’ll not be bothered about their unflattering comment. Well, maybe the comments got to her eventually because, at some point, the singer disappeared from the media completely and came back with a banging workout body. 

“I would only lose weight if it affected my health or sex life, which it doesn’t’. The plus-size singer was also single and had no relationship. There was a time when a designer, Karl Largerfield said Adele was a little too fat and that she had a beautiful strong voice. He later apologized and sent handbags.

Adele’s Marriage

The singer was married to Simon Konecki whom she had been with since 2011. They got married in 2018 and Adele announced their divorce in 2019.  He is the father to Adele’s son, Angelo

Adele stated that neither of them hurt each other but she had to do what was best for her because she was not happy in the relationship. While speaking with Vogue she said, 

“I was just going through the motions and I wasn’t happy,”

 She stated that she was gradually healing from the heartbreak and was moving on. 

“Neither of us hurt each other or anything like that. It was just: I want my son to see me really love, and be loved. It’s really important to me,”

She added that they lived close to each other and they both took care of their son and hosted family movie night. Adele stated that their decision affected their son as there were times when he asked her, “Don’t you live with my dad anymore?” She said that she realized she was the problem this time so she had to leave. 

Adele’s Healing Process

Adele met with a professional and attended therapy. The professional asked her to sit with her then 7-year-old son and tell him about her feelings growing up as a child and about her relationship with her father. Adele had been running away from that discussion with her son because she had a strained relationship with her father throughout her life. Adele’s father died of cancer in 2020. He was mostly absent throughout her childhood and then when she became famous, he sold her stories to UK tabloids for money. 

She stated that it was hard to not be sure if someone who was supposed to love you, loves you or not. She added that her relationship with her dad destroyed her relationship with men generally. She always had a particular mindset about men, “You are going to hurt me so I’m going to hurt you first.” It is a toxic mindset that prevents her from finding true love and happiness. 

Adele’s Album

After her divorce, Adele released a music album. She told November issue of Vogue Magazine that her new album will explain to her son why she chose to dismantle his life. Even though she admits that her divorce took a part of her she still says that she would have been more miserable if she hadn’t put herself first.

The Grammy award-winning singer said that her son had a lot of questions and she could only explain them through music so she created an album. 

 Their divorce was finalized in 2021 and it inspired her latest album and weight loss. After her divorce, Adele took a break from everything, music, function and parties and even public events. The singer disappeared for a while and came back after with a banging body. 

Adele Got Addicted To Exercise

She stated that the gym was an antidote for anxiety and it also made her busy so she would not be on her phone. Recall, that Adele disappeared fro social media and everywhere for a period of time. Adele said that it was never about losing weight so the vile comment on her post was not what pushed her. She said it was about being strong and not about losing weight. But we can tell she’s enjoying her new sleek toned body and the confidence is different. She added that she needed to get her mind on something to be able to breathe. 

In May 2020 when she revealed her workout body people started to say that she starved herself and went on diet but as we can see, the singer firmly stated that she was addicted to exercise. 

She said that people were shocked because she didn’t do any ‘fit fam’ journey but that she didn’t care because she didn’t do it for them but she did it for herself. 

Adele Moved On

In 2021, Adele got into a new relationship with a sports agent called Rich Paul. The couple went public with their romance when they attended the NBA finals in Phoenix, Arizona. A close friend of the source stated that it’s not that serious and the both of them were just having a good time. ‘She’s having fun and just being social.’ 

She was also entangled with London’s rapper, Skepta and another close source stated that she was only having fun. The two run in the same circle in London so they have to hang out a lot. It was nothing serious. 

Who is Rich Paul?

He is a sports agent to many basketballers including LeBron James, John Walls and Ben Simmons. 

Who is Adele? 

Adele Laurie Blue Adkins MBE is an English singer and songwriter. She is famous for her incredibly beautiful voice. 

Adele seems to be in a better place now with her son Angelo Adkins

Lessons To Learn.

Toxicity has a cycle and if you are not healed from it, you become a toxic person and it spreads to another person. Adele had a toxic relationship with her father as a child. This changed her views about all men. After being in a relationship and getting married, she still had the mindset that men will always hurt her so she was always unhappy in the relationship. 

She became the toxic one.

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