How To Act When Your Crush Is Around

The feeling of seeing your crush, arggh! You can’t explain it. It’s a feeling mixed with anxiety and excitement. You don’t want to mess up and ruin the moment but at the same time, you don’t want to note them. You don’t know what they want, what they like. You don’t know if you should stay calm or if you just be yourself. 

What if they find you weird? Stop overthinking. It’s just a human, right? I’m going to hold your hand and walk you through the process of how to act when your crush is around. It’s simple! Now breathe in…out. Let’s Go!

First of all, you have to be yourself. How long can you fake who you are? I know it’s easier said than done because sometimes, we have to form an accent, dress differently, and look different but it’s best to be yourself so they can like you for who you are.

These are the ways you can act when you are with your crush

Be a Good Listener:

If you have been eyeing this girl or boy and now they want to talk to you, the best thing you can do is to listen. Everyone loves someone who likes to listen.

Ask Questions:

it’s not just about listening. If you are listening without asking any questions to make the conversation engaging then you are only going to bore them and it will probably be the last time they talk to you. Have to ask questions during the conversation. Don’t interrupt them but when you want to be verified or cleared about something they said, you can just ask. And even though you understand everything they have said, still ask to make the conversation interesting.

Talk About A Movie, Book Or Tv Show.

This never goes wrong. If they are book lovers, talk about a book. If they are movie lovers then talk about a movie.

What if you don’t love what they love? How can you talk about it?

Well, it’s simple. Ask them which they prefer and listen to them talk about it. Life is not that hard.

Find Something You Both Have In Common:

It doesn’t have to be a film. That’s why you are having a conversation so you can get to know them and find out what they like. You might have the same hobbies or even dislikes. Talk about the experience and how it made you feel. People naturally feel like the people they have things in common with, are their soulmates. It could even be the same birthday or birth month.

Tell Stories

If you have nice stories, tell them. As long as you do not bore your crush. Once you notice they are getting bored you can just change the topic or ask them a question so they could talk.

Be Honest

Let them like the real you, if they don’t, you tried your best but don’t do anything fake just so you can be loved by them. If they find out, the majority will still leave.

We all use to have a crush at some point. It is on of the silliest things because you start to act like a child around them.