Hard To Accept Signs That Your Relationship Is Going Nowhere

Some people see these hard to accept signs in their relationship and decide to ignore them. Most relationships are tricky. In some cases they make you think and fantasise about things that will never happen.

In some other cases, the fantasies become reality but whichever way, they are tricky because you never know how it ends.

It can hurt sometimes, investing your time and energy in something that was bound to end even before it started. But you won’t know until you try right?

Here are the signs 

1. They Make You Feel Insecure:

This is when you feel unsure about your relationship. You do not know whether they are serious with you or not so most times you say it’s complicated. You don’t know if you are the main girl or the side chick. You are unsure about the way they feel about you because sometimes it is like you mean the world to them then the next minute, you are like the most irritating thing on the planet. You don’t even know whether they love you or they are just using you to pass time and they are enjoying the attention they get from you.

2. You Putting All The Efforts:

When you are the only one trying to make it work, it means he or she just wants you to let go so that the both of you can move on to something new. This sign is so hard to accept. You try to make excuses for the other person not putting in the effort.

You cut out everything to see them and they won’t do the same even though they have the chance to. You make dates and they cancel them. In every argument, they are ready to let go. When you argue and fight, you always have to apologise, if not, in the end. The sad truth about this is that we know these things: The red lights are bright red and they are shining. You know you have to apologise first because if you don’t, they will probably ignore you for the rest of their lives. You are also the one making sacrifices in the relationship.

3. You Are Physically Connected Than Emotionally:

You get more connected physically, They are attracted to you 100% but you don’t connect emotionally. They are always ready when it comes to satisfying their physical needs but when it comes to real-life conversations and deep things, they always make excuses or they are always not available. They always push you away. When you try to talk about the future, they chicken out and in some cases, they can’t even say ‘i love you’.

4. You Feel Like They Are Using You:

If you feel used in a relationship then the relationship is not genuine. If you feel they are with you because you are famous, rich, from a particular family, because of your body and many others, then you are in the wrong relationship. Why is that? If you lose whatever they are with you for, the relationship ends immediately. You start to see characters you didn’t see before. This is where you hear people saying that after they slept with their partner, the communication dropped.

In most cases, nothing is wrong with your sex life. They were with you for sex and now that they got it, they have left.

5. The Relationship Is On And Off:

If the relationship is unstable before marriage then it might be worse after. They are painful silence, toxic characters and consistent arguments flying all around. You break up for months and stop talking, then after a few months, you come back together again. Na, that is not it. You both are not compatible so just move on and stop wasting each other’s time.

6. They Avoid Everything That Has To Deal With Commitment:

They do not want to commit themselves to anything serious. They do not give gifts that make meaning to you even though they know what you want. They try to avoid it so you don’t start to think deeply. They always stay absent for the big and important events in your life because they know close families and friends will be there and they try to avoid conversations like “what next? What are the plans?” And all that.

They shy away from talking about marriage, kids and a life together because they do not have the same dreams as you.