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Five reasons you shouldn’t beg to be loved
Love is a beautiful thing . It’s not the end of the world if you love someone and they don’t love you back. You will always meet someone that is crazy about you and loves you unconditionally. It is only a matter of time. No one should be seen begging for love because it never turns out well. If someone doesn’t value you, someonelse will.
Here is a list of five reasons you shouldn’t beg to be loved.
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It is a sign of being desperate
Falling in love is a natural process. You can’t make someone love you by begging them. Love is not forced. Begging them means you can’t exist without them and that you are a desperate lover. No one wants to be with a desperate lover. The truth is you were living your life before you met them. It’s only your mindset that makes you think you can’t live without them if they don’t love you.
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They may take advantage of you
When you beg to be loved, this makes you vulnerable and it is an opportunity for them to treat you as they like. You won’t be able to stand your ground and give your opinions on issues. You will also find yourself dancing to their tune. If they don’t love you, let them go and move on because they may take advantage of you at every chance they get. This can even affect your confidence and self esteem.
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It won’t make them love you
Just as you can’t force yourself to love someone you don’t like, so also it is impossible to force someone to love you. Fighting or begging someone to love you won’t change their mind, if they don’t love you, they don’t love you. No matter what you do, it’s not going to change anything, it might even make them not to value you.
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It reduces your chance of meeting the right person early enough
The time you spend begging to be loved prevents you from seeing those that truly love and care about you. The more you stick to that person that doesn’t love you, the less chances you have to meet the right person early enough.
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It can affect you emotionally
When you keep begging to be loved and there isn’t a positive response, this can’t hurt you emotionally and prevent you from doing things you love. You deserve to experience true love and not managed love.
You should never beg to be loved. You are someone’s spec out there, it is only a matter of time before you meet them. A love that is forced is never enjoyed.
