RELATIONSHIP
Five problems to avoid in your marriage
Marriage is beautiful when you are with that right person that gives you peace of mind. That is why it is never something you can rush into. Marriage is a lifetime contract, so it is needed for you to take your time and communicate effectively with your partner before taking the big step called marriage. Some people tend to ignore red flags in relationship and still go ahead to get married. As time goes on, they begin to have problems in their marriage and might be too late to resolve.
Below is a compilation of five problems to avoid in your marriage.
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Infidelity
This has brought about broken homes, relationships and marriages. Having extramarital affair can greatly affect your relationship with your spouse. When you love someone, you trust them and believe that they will not hurt you but once that trust is broken, it is hard to rebuild. Once you notice that it’s in your partner’s nature to cheat and be unfaithful, you should avoid getting married to such a person
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In – Law problems
Sometimes, in-laws can be very hostile to either of the spouse. This if not properly handled by both of them can cause serious problems in their marriage. Couples should learn to settle their differences between themselves and don’t allow in-laws to interfere. In-law interference in settling differences has led to so many broken homes. It is important for couples to take note of this before getting married.
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Insecurity
It takes a lot for couples to love and trust each other and once insecurity sets in it can destroy marriage relationships. Couples must learn to trust each other. If you don’t trust your partner, there is no point getting married to them because the marriage might not last. Lack of trust has destroyed so many marriages.
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Infertility
It is the desire of all couples to be blessed with children after marriage. Couples must learn to believe God for the fruit of the womb and not blame each other when they have delay in bearing children.
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Financial problem
Love is sweeter when there is money. Marriage comes with a lot of responsibilities that is why it is important to make proper planning before venturing into marriage. Financial problems affects relationship between couples and in the long run can lead to a broken home.
