Every one of us falls in love many times. Of course, we won’t be loved back every time and it might always last long. This often happens to those of us who love too much.
You are in love with the idea of being in love and you hold on to this idea that it’ll last forever and others will be envious of it.
Most of the time you find yourself in a one-sided relationship and that in itself always ends with you feeling devastated. My advice isn’t to love less or to play hard to get.
My advice for you is love more. Fall in love with the boy who holds the door open for you or fall in love with the girl you stay up late talking to and not only with them, but with yourself.
If they leave you, that is okay. If they tell you they no longer love you or even if they say they never did, that is okay, too.
Do acts of love for them. Write him letters or make a playlist of songs that make you think of her.
We go through life constantly looking for good companionship, looking for something that makes each and every day a little more meaningful and exciting.
We look for a reason to wake up in the morning with a complete smile on our face with something to look forward to.
With every heartbreak you become one more person closer to being with the one who you will spend the rest of your life with.
People will talk about how fast you jump from relationship to relationship. They will talk about how fast you fall in love.
They will make you feel almost ashamed of being who you are, but, in reality, would you rather go through life wondering what ever would have happened if you told that one boy you dated that you loved him? Or would you want to know what would have happened?
Being the one who loves too much doesn’t make you needy, it doesn’t mean you lack any self-respect or can’t be happy on your own. It means you simply just love and trust. Everyone deserves those two things.
Many have loved and have lost, and because of that reason, they are married to the love of their life now. So, I’m telling you to love hard, because without that, we would be nothing.
