No, sex is not the same thing as intimacy in a relationship. They are often used interchangeably but there is a distinct and significant difference between the two.
There is Intimate sex and there is sex without intimacy. Intimacy with someone is about being close to them in a way that doesn’t matter what they bring or what they do.
What Is Intimacy?
Intimacy unlike sex goes beyond physical activity. It involves a level of connection that comes with trust and brings people together. An intimate relationship can be so deep, It allows people to be vulnerable because they trust one another.
Types of Intimacy
- Physical intimacy: This includes touching, hugs, holding hands and even cuddling. It brings feelings of closeness and desire. It is physical intimacy that often leads to sexual intimacy.
- Sexual Intimacy: This is the act of sex with trust. Trust because people have sex without being intimate. They just want to have sex.
- Emotional Intimacy: This is when you feel close to someone. In this case, trust has been built. You are able to tell them your deepest secrets, fears and disappointments.
- Spiritual Intimacy: Worshiping and praying with your partner is an example of spiritual intimacy. Watching the sunrise and setting, holding hands and walking down the park or beach and even meditating together. It doesn’t have to be related to religion. It makes couples get closer.
- Intellectual Intimacy: This is when you are comfortable with talking about beliefs, and opinions without expecting conflict because they understand your reasoning. They know about your differences and they respect them. There is freedom because, in the end, you understand each other.
What Is Sex?
Sex is physical. It is an activity between people that involves sexual organs. Sex doesn’t have to be intimate. People have sex for different reasons without getting intimate. They have sex for money, to satisfy their needs and for other things. Intimacy is deeper than that.
