Ahhhh! It’s December and it’s the perfect opportunity for most ladies to go scouting for those “I just got back” guys but it is best to avoid these Abroad men as much as possible.
Some of them want these men for their money and boy! We do know the current exchange right of dollars right now don’t we?
Others want permanence and hope to ensnare these men so that they can get married to them and find a free passport ticket out of Nigeria.
I know it sounds good. But, before you decide to get caught up in a situation-ship or a relationship with an Abroad guy, you should know that a lot of them are only looking for a temporary experience with Nigerian girls before they head back abroad.
These Are 7 Reasons You Should Avoid Abroad Men This December!
They will hardly return your love
Let’s face it! This is not a Romeo and Juliet Situation. You are not Juliet and I can assure you, these abroad men you have your eyes set are not the Romeo you’re looking for.
What’s the possibility that they will fall in love with you in 2 or 3 weeks which is the average time they spend before they head back Abroad?
You should know that whatever feelings you have for them, might not be returned and you will have to nurse a broken heart.
Most of them have families outsides
Ummmm….facts! A lot of these Abroad men come back home and look for other ladies as an escape from their monogamous relationships and marriages in the abroad.
It’s very possible that the “fine abroad bobo” you have your eyes on has a wife and 5 kids chilling in a big house abroad.
They are good at sweet talking and might even promise marriage and a family, this is when you have to be careful so you don’t fall for their antics.
Some of them are scammers
Abroad men Scamming Nigerian women is becoming a Pandemic.
Imagine getting scammed by someone you thought would help you out financially.
A lot of them use “fake lifestyles” and nice corny words to get the ladies wrapped around their fingers. Then, they proceed to ask for things, promising these ladies that it’s an investment in their future.
When they’ve been able to get a tidy sum of money, they Immediately disappear into thin air.
They do not hold Nigerian women in high regard
Your self worth should never be compromised.
These Abroad me do not view Nigerian women in a good light. Overseas, they respect and treat the women there with so much softness and reverence.
However, they see a Nigeria woman as a dumping ground for all their bad characters because we are known for “tolerating”.
Why be with someone who sees you as lesser than other females?
You don’t want to start new year with a broken heart
Who wants to start a whole new age and year nursing a broken heart? I know you don’t!
The new year is the best time to make those wonderful resolutions and stick with them. It will be super tough to do that if you’re ushering in your new year in tears.
They are talking to other girls
Trust me! You’re not the only one. These Abroad men are notorious for talking to many girls at once. They’re just looking to have some fun and temporary relief, so, while you’re special, you’re not that special to them.
You can get pregnant
While this is uncommon, it can happen. In the instance that you get pregnant for them, what happens? Oh! I’ll tell you what happens. They will leave you here in Nigeria and head back to wherever it is they flew in from and they get to move on with their lives like they never met you.
Guess who will be the one stuck with a child conceived by a father you only met fleeting for a few weeks?
Definitely not me!
If you do decide to not avoid Abroad men and start a relationship with them, please be guarded, protect your heart and most importantly don’t give them your hard earned money.
