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10 Things People Don’t Understand About Love
Love is a feeling that can bring positive energy to a troubled soul. It connects people and keeps them close regardless of distances. It can bridge hearts and make them want to live together. The only thing we never get enough of is love, and the only thing we never give enough of is love.
Due to the numerous broken marriages and relationships today in society, the world is left with surprise on what can keep marriages and relationships healthy and successful, and also what is the true meaning of love. To these questions, here are 10 things people don’t understand about Love:
1)Love is Give-and-Take
2)Love is Respect
Respect means that you recognize that your partner is a whole person and not just a way to get something that you want. A healthy relationship is built on respect for one another. Each person understands the commitment they are making to the other person.
3)Love is Commitment
The key to success in a healthy relationship with someone is actually the terrifying but necessary effort of commitment. Being there for someone is what a real relationship needs. When we neglect to put in the effort is when things don’t work out with someone that could have been perfect for us.
4)Love is Vulnerability
Because love is scary, it’s basically giving someone a map of all your flaws and imperfections and putting faith in them to not abuse that power. And that can be so beautiful; it makes you do the hardest thing a human could ever do, be vulnerable.
5)Love is Accepting their Flaws
We’re human beings and every human is filled with flaws. We’re never going to be the same, but being patient and accepting each other’s flaws is something that never stops us from growing with one another.
6)Love is About Growing Together
The term “grow together” in love means the overall development of a couple. It is not limited to spending your whole life with each other or traveling together but actually encouraging your partner to grow in all aspects of life as well.
7)Love is Equality
A healthy relationship is when two people are equal in a relationship. We equally love, we equally respect, and we equally care.
8)Love is Patience
A couple may not always agree. Testing each other’s patience and still coming home to love kindness, and respect is the best feeling ever.
9)Love is Security
For me, love is the most secure feeling. Love is having a companion, best friend, lover, partner, sounding board, cheerleader, advisor, and cuddle buddy through every avenue in the journey of life.
10)Love is for better or for worse
Finally, Love is sticking through the highs and the lows, through the thick and thin, through wealth and poverty, through the good and bad days, and through health and sickness. Do not back out when it is not going as planned. This is the true definition of love.
