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How Apology Can Save Your Relationship From Headache

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How Apology Can Save Your Relationship From Headache

Apologizing is one of those things we find very difficult to do as beings, the way some people avoid the word “I’m sorry” seems like they’re avoiding an ak47 bullet. Some of those who even manage to say it, say it to avoid the one million and one words they will hear from their partner.

Apologizing is not the words in itself but the heart behind those words, The “know your partner” factor will showcase itself, here again. The way some people take apologies differs from others. Below are some categories  of people and the way they prefer to be apologized to:

Apology with reasons

Some partners do not want you to say just “I am sorry” they want to know the reason why you’re sorry or the reason behind your actions… like

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“Baby I’m sorry I yelled at you, you know I’m still working on my anger issues and

It’s not a day job, it’s a process,

Please love, see me through this phase

And walk me to the man you want me to be”

Apology with assurance

Some partners want you to convince them that history would not repeat itself; you can do that with the right choice of words or anything possible to get her to trust you again. In case of cheating, my dear the trust cannot come back easily, you have to keep assuring and assuring till the trust finally returns.

We need to cultivate the act of apologizing; some persons have ruined their relationship because they allowed their ego to rule over them. They kept waiting for the first person to apologize and when no one made the first move, they silently killed the relationship.

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Last words

Beware of those little things that gradually kill your relationship, not apologizing when wrong even when the other person is wrong, apologize still. No, you’re not a fool, you’re just wise.

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