Perhaps you’re a wife struggling with your marriage; we do not push the blame to you saying that it is definitely your fault. However, if you are looking for answers on how you can be a better wife, this article is for you.
There are some elements that make up a great marriage that need to be put in place when starting off the marriage. As we discuss these elements, make sure you look at your own marriage and discover the areas that need help.
Many marriages have problems simply because we didn’t get married to the right partner. Once we find out which area of the relationship is not working, we can begin to accept that part of our spouse. Remember, you married them knowing who they were so it’s better to focus on the positive sides.
TIPS TO BE A BETTER WIFE
When trying to be a better wife to your husband, make sure that you don’t forget the following:
1. Don’t try to change him.
You cannot change your husband. You have to accept him for who he is. When you marry a man and then try to change him, you’re not accepting him for who he is and this will hurt not only him but you also in the end.
A man can (and will) change certain things about himself if he wants to and you can guide him to see the areas that need changing but you cannot change him.
A good wife understands this and finds ways to encourage her husband and let him change on his own as the relationship grows. If certain behaviors bother you, work through them together. But you cannot change another person’s core values or beliefs or who they are.
2. Desire him.
Show your husband you still desire him. This is a big one for married couples. Do not marry a man that you’re not attracted to or have any chemistry with. This will only lead to disaster in the bedroom. This is not a good choice for a husband who you’ll share your mind and body with; that’s a friend.
For those who are planning to stay celibate till marriage, understand that you do not have to have sex with someone to know if you have chemistry and passion. If it’s there, you’ll feel it.
There has to be a spark of that passion. This passion can grow in a marriage and make the relationship all that much stronger.
A good wife wants to be intimate with her spouse because she understands a man needs to have sex with his wife for a deep connection.
Men connect through sex with the women that they love and a good wife knows this. Men that are unable to have regular sex with their wives become bitter and angry toward their spouse. Research, books, movies and experienced couples support this statement as vain and worldly as it seems.
Sex is supposed to be fun. If it’s not, then communicate and work on it together to make it more exciting for the two of you.
IN CONCLUSION
You might already be doing these now and might be wondering what the need of mentioning them are. These two are very important parts to play for a woman in a marriage. If you’re doing them now, keep doing them now. Marriage is forever. Has this article helped? Let us know in the comment section.
