Society is known for giving its opinions on many parts of our life, and this is because even though we all like to act independent and self-reliant, we care about what society thinks. However, society sometimes gives terrible advice on various parts of our life, including relationship. Society encourages us to stay ignorant when it comes to relationship and instead, chase romance.
If you want to start a business, society states that you’re a more effective business owner if you study business in school, create well thought out business plans, and analyze your business performance with diligence. This is rational because that’s the way you are to act when you want to do something good and minimize mistakes.
However, if an individual decided to go and get educated about how to pick a life partner and take part in a healthy relationship if they charted out a detailed plan of action to find one and if they kept their process organized, society would frown at them, society would say that they’re an over-rational robot, call them way too concerned about it and refer to them as a huge weirdo.
When it comes to dating, love life and relationships, society frowns on thinking too much about your decisions; instead, it opts for things like relying on fate, going with your gut instinct and hoping for the best. If a business person were to follow this advice, the person would probably fail, and if she succeeded, it would be mostly due to good luck. That is how society wants us to approach dating, leaving it to luck and fate, the fact that a lot of people post ‘God when’ proves this, no one plans. According to society, everyone should ‘go with the flow’, and that’s why a lot of people are ‘catching cruise’.
There are a lot of online systems created to broaden the pool of choices of partners in an intelligent way, but traditional society frowns upon that, and people are often still timid to say they met their spouse on a dating site.
However, Wonder is not just the bringer of bad news; fortunately, this stigma is diminishing with time, but that it’s still there is a reflection of how illogical the traditional dating rule book is. Love and light, Wonder.
