Nigerian social media personality Moet Abebe took to her instagram page on the 9th of August to dish out some advice to her instagram followers and Nigerian girls in general.
She states that girls should allow the men do the chasing and the following rather than Vice versa.
She advised girls to string men along and also let them spend on them without reciprocating it.
She explained that being very caring to a man is not rewarding and that a woman’s focus should always go be her happiness.
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We are in a society where many men have been termed as time wasters especially after being in a relationship with a woman for a long time and then quitting it. Her advice to women is to do the same and take up the mantle of being the time wasters.
In her own words,
“Let man be following you!!! You string them along!!! You make them invest in you!!! Let them be the ones to waste their time and not you, let them chase you!!!
You should be the one that is emotionally unavailable!!!
You should be the one that takes time to answer their calls or respond to their messages.
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On a real… over doing or being over caring…e no dey pay.
Focus on you and your happiness mehn! Never let it revolve around man because na u the woman dem go still blame when it all goes to shits.
You may as well as make it work out in your favor… (drops mic)”