For ladies: Four reasons your Ex will get jealous

Sometimes, envy can mess with people’s heads and lead them back to their ex. When this happens, couples are more likely to breakup because they returned for the wrong reasons. Instead of working on themselves to become better, they return to soothe their grief and affirm themselves. If your ex feels jealous after they dumped you and you are not sure why, know that your ex took your post-breakup conduct very seriously. They expected you to perform in accordance with their expectations, but instead you projected authority, and a great sense of self worth. You handled the breakup gracefully, leaving them to wonder if they meant anything to you in the first place.

Here are 4 reasons your ex is jealous of you.

1. They recall specific event

When the relationship was still fresh, you must have made beautiful memories with your partner. As time goes by and issues occur, they do not cherish those memories. But when you are no longer together, however, your ex will treasure those experiences and memories and wish to relive them with you.

2. They are wondering if you are treating your partners better than you treated them

Even after you move on, you may find yourself wondering if they are treating their new partners better than they treated you. Questions like is he putting in more effort? Is he being more truthful? Why didn’t he treat you special when you were around? starts to pop up in your head. They may be treating their current partner better as a result of what they learnt from your relationship. It is also likely that their new partner isn’t looking for the same things in a relationship as you are. Each relationship is unique, so there is no point in comparing them.

3. When they see you are happy

You are far more attractive and appealing when you are happy than when you are sad or depressed. Your ex will not be envious and want you back when you are still upset and sad over the breakup. When you overcome the sad moments and begin to be joyful again, you appear appealing, which causes to notice how beautiful/handsome you are and how well you are doing without them

4. Your ex could be confused

It is possible your ex is indecisive about the way they feel about you. It becomes complicated when your ex shows you contradicting signals and alternate between being hot and cold towards you. Overtime, this problem gets resolved. Continue to apply the no contact rule and they will either realize that they want to be with you or that they don’t.

5. Hurting heart

If you were too busy and they ended the relationship because they felt undervalued, they might be saddened to see you move on and give your attention to another man or woman when you did not make time for them when the relationship was still alive.