You believe you’ve found your soulmate. Every time you see her, you’re speechless. Its not her looks that does this to you, it’s simply been around her. You’re experiencing an electrifying thing you’ve never felt before.
The way you love her is so amazing that you believe you’re the luckiest man alive. Perhaps, you can’t even believe she loves you back.
At the honeymoon stage, it’s all kisses, intimacy, and fantastic sex. You can’t get enough of being with her. As the relationship grows, the work begins, and you’re faced with a new reality. You find yourself dealing with feelings and emotions you’re not used to having.
Thoughts that make you worry about her leaving you. You have crazy thoughts about her falling for another man. These thoughts and emotions have the potential to damage your relationship.
Here’s what you need to know and a few things you can do to hold onto this woman who makes you want to be a better man.
1. Have your own life.
There’s nothing sexier than a confident man. When you don’t have much going on, you have too much free time to focus on your insecurities. It’s important to have lots of things you do together as a couple, but you also must have your own life, work, friends, and things you do for fun. You can’t lose your individual identity in the relationship.
Work hard at your job. Spend some alone time with your friends. Have personal improvement projects that help you reach your biggest life goals. The point is to be busy enough not to be dependent on always being with her for you to be happy.
When you are busy and spend some time away, it’s a turn on for her. Having your own life will help you develop confidence in who you are and what you have going on in life.
2. Be the best version of yourself.
Confidence always comes when you feel good about yourself. Your health is an important part of that equation. Your goal, as a confident man, is to be in shape physically, mentally, and emotionally. Your goal should be to do the work that helps you become a better man.
Wake up every day and exercise. Use that time to release stress and get your mind right. Plan out your day, week, and month as you sweat out any bad emotions and feelings. Make food choices that nourish you and give you the energy you need to be strong all day and help you stay in your ideal weight range. Your weight will affect your relationship and sex life.
Read books, and feed your mind with inspiration. Talk to friends, a therapist or get honest with yourself consistently about the strong emotions you’re dealing with. Don’t keep them inside. Be the best man you can be and only you can know what that means to you.
3. Check your jealousy consistently.
When you’re with a beautiful woman, jealousy will become an issue. I don’t believe it’s possible to not be jealous at all. You will deal with crazy thoughts about other guys and losing your love. Giving into jealousy is the fastest way to lose the woman you love. Jealousy is not confidence and is a HUGE turn off to all women.
Be in control of your jealousy. It will always be there, but there are things you can do to keep it in check. Realize that many men will be attracted to your woman, that’s natural, but that doesn’t mean she will be sleeping around with every guy who gives her the time of day.
If you are in love, you have to trust in that love. You have to give her space and trust that she is faithful to your love. If you feel like she’s not, you probably shouldn’t be together.
Stay busy as I previously mentioned to keep your mind distracted. Deal with what is making you feel jealousy; are you the problem? Don’t let jealousy keep you from the love of a beautiful woman.
4. Communicate your feelings.
At the end of the day, your relationship will grow or die based off of its communication. If you can’t find a way to express some of what is going on inside, the bad feelings will win, and you’ll push her away.Tell her what’s important. Be honest and stay in control of your emotions as you talk; no outbursts.
LAST LOVE TIP
When you’re in a relationship with the woman that ticks all of your boxes, it’s a wonderful feeling. It’s a special kind of love that can help or hurt you and it’s your actions that will determine what happens. In everything you do, put love first.
