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3 Nigerian Women Share Their Worst Sex Experience
Anita, 27
I decided to take a break from having sex. I did not find it satisfactory any more and it ended leaving me feeling empty on most days. , I took a 3 year break from sex. Everyone around me who knew of my decision kept saying I was talking a break because I just hadn’t find the perfect person but in reality, I did not care much for finding the right one.
I decided to give my time and energy to myself and it worked fine for me till one day, I met this guy.
We started talking almost everyday and out conversations started to get really intimate.
Incase you were wondering, my decision to stay away from sex was not becasue I did not love sex, becasue I absolutely did. It was more because of the feelings it evoked after I was done.
My imaginations when it came to sex always ran wild and I decided I was going to live it out with this guy.
The day finally came. I was prepared to orgasm to my fullest. Only for this guy to just slide right in with no foreplay or anything. The worst thing was him whispering “I know you enjoyed it” as he came.
When I got home, I immediately blocked him from all of my social media accounts and my private number as well. I’ve never regretted something like I regretted that particular sec encounter. It was the worst sex of my life and a waste of body count.
Lucy, 25
When I was in school, I knew this guy who had a massive crush on me. I was in a serious relationship at the time so I did not really give him the time of the day. He became my friend instead and we built a comfortable relationship around each other. I would call him on many occasions when I got tired during night class and we would go to his hostel to rest. Mind you, we never had sex throughout this period of us being friends. I was a faithful babe to my then boyfriend but then he cheated on me.
Not only did I get cheated on, he also decided to break up with me and be with the person he cheated on me with.
Heartbroken, I decided to give the guy that had a crush on me a chance.
We got closer and one day I decided to myself…fuck it! I want to have sex with him.
We first started with him giving me head and he was great at it that I was certain his sex game would be good.
To my absolute surprise, he came before he had even put his dick in me.
He was embarrassed already so I tried not to make a big issue after that.
After that incident, any time we got together, I made certain he gave me head before sex so that I at least would be satisfied.
Olivia, 24
I had this guy who was checking up on me on a consistent basis.
I decided to pay him a visit one day and when I did one thing ting led to another and we started having sex.
I was the one in charge and riding his dick but to my displeasure it kept falling.
I couldn’t understand how a boy so fine did not know how to use his dick properly.
The worst thing is he came in me after assuring me his pullout game was strong. I was so angry and disgusted that I had to take the morning-after pill for sex that I didn’t even enjoy.
Culled From Culture Custodian
