How Apology Can Save Your
Relationship From Headache
Apologizing
is one of those things we find very difficult to do as beings, the way some
people avoid the word “I’m sorry” seems like they’re avoiding an ak47 bullet.
Some of those who even manage to say it, say it to avoid the one million and
one words they will hear from their partner.
Apologizing is not the words in itself but the heart behind those words, The “know your partner” factor will showcase itself, here again. The way some people take apologies differs from others. Below are some categories of people and the way they prefer to be apologized to:
Apology with reasons
Some
partners do not want you to say just “I am sorry” they want to know the reason
why you’re sorry or the reason behind your actions… like
“Baby I’m sorry I yelled at you, you know I’m still working on my anger issues and
It’s not a day job, it’s a process,
Please love, see me through this phase
And walk me to the man you want me to be”
Apology with assurance
Some
partners want you to convince them that history would not repeat itself; you
can do that with the right choice of words or anything possible to get her to
trust you again. In case of cheating, my dear the trust cannot come back
easily, you have to keep assuring and assuring till the trust finally returns.
We
need to cultivate the act of apologizing; some persons have ruined their
relationship because they allowed their ego to rule over them. They kept
waiting for the first person to apologize and when no one made the first move,
they silently killed the relationship.
Last words
Beware of those little things that gradually kill your relationship, not apologizing when wrong even when the other person is wrong, apologize still. No, you’re not a fool, you’re just wise.
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