Do you have suspicions that you’re talking to a love bomber? Then keep reading.
Have you ever heard of the word love bombing?
Well, if this is your first time, then, this is what love bombing means.
Love bombing is when someone showers you with an insane amount of love and attention in an overwhelming way within a short period of time.
This is known as a technique to hopefully help you get your guards down before they encroach on you and potentially manipulate you.
What are the signs you’re talking to a love bomber?
What makes it different from a normal show of love and affection?
Well, here are five signs that will let you know that the person who is showing that intense interest in you is actually a love bomber.
They text and call every single time
Yes, this can be a sign that you’re getting love bombed.
Being in constant communication with someone that you like is not a bad thing. But if they seem to not give you breathing space, especially if you guys just started talking, then that can be a sure sign that the person who is showing that interest in you is actually love bombing you.
Texting you and calling you all the time can be a way to distract you from their real intentions.
They want you to give them your undivided attention
Yes, this is also one of the signs that you are potentially talking to a love bomber. It’s okay for a love interest to want you to give them a little bit of attention and your time.
But if they are always asking for all of your attention, if they always wants to interrupt your work process, if the always wants to interrupt your time kept away for your friends and your family and always want you to fixated on them, then this could be a sign that the person who has that interest in you is trying to love bomb you.
They want you to commit to them immediately
This is a very very sure sign that the person you’re talking to is a potential love bomber. They will want you to make them the center of your world immediately. They might even go as far as proposing to you because they want to get your attention and they wants you to be wrapped up in their own world.
They over step boundaries
They don’t like it when you create some boundaries for yourself.
They don’t respect your boundaries.. No matter how intense or how lovestruck a person is, It’s important that people have their boundaries and their safe space in any relationship.
But a love bomber has no respect for your time no respect for your safe spaces. They also have no respect for your boundaries.
They’re willing to push the limits to your boundaries just to get to you.
They don’t know how to respect your wishes, and they don’t know how to handle any form of rejections from you.
You just know
You know when you feel something that is genuine, and you know when you feel something that just does not seem genuine. When you feel it in your guts and you feel a bit unbalanced, then that can be a sign that the guy who is showing you such intense love and attention is actually a love bomber. So there you have it. Some signs that you might be potentially talking to a love bomber.
Make sure that you protect your self when dealing with a love bomber because it can be a deep manipulation process that will be very difficult to get out of.